Archive for the ‘Love is a Choice’ Category

When it comes to giving the special lady in their life flowers, most men think about the obvious occasions such as Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day or maybe their wedding anniversary. While it’s great to receive a beautiful bouquet of blossoms on these special days, there are also plenty of other flower-worthy occasions that pop up […]

OK guys, Valentine’s Day is fast approaching. You’ve given her flowers and chocolates the last several years and afterwards you’re left scratching you’re head wondering why the romantic flame is more like a Bic lighter than a blow torch. If you’re like the majority of guys, your idea of romance is limited to red helium […]

I woke up this morning thinking what a great day it would be to go fishing! The salmon are running in the local rivers and I could be in the water within thirty minutes. I rolled out of bed and could feel the excitement and the thrill of fighting a fish. I visualized reeling in […]

Family Choices

Posted: 6th January 2013 by Jason Coleman in Communication, Love is a Choice
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One choice that many couples face is whether or not both spouses should work outside of the home. This is typically not a very difficult de­cision, that is, until you bring children into the world. Those of you who have kids can all agree on this one thing—everything changes with kids! While it was most […]

Commitment Phobia. What is it, and how do you conquer it? To begin with, in general terms it is the fear that prevents you from engaging in a committed and healthy relationship. It is the inability or unwillingness to trust yourself and someone else with your innermost secrets, needs, and desires. For some, the thought […]

As men, we carry the God-given burden and responsibility to lead our wives and families and to be the spiritual leader of our home.  What does that look like to you? What type of leader are you at home?For many years Debby and I “played fake” and put on our “church face” whenever we showed […]

Debby and I are about to embark on a busy month of speaking and teaching opportunities. Please keep us in your prayers as we share God’s truth about marriage and relationships over the next few weeks. Here is our schedule: September 29, 2012 – Awana Ministry Conference, Palmcroft Baptist Church, Phoenix, AZ October 6th, 2012 […]

Family Values Matter

Posted: 29th July 2012 by Jason Coleman in Love is a Choice

I remember growing up as a young boy looking forward to the fall season with much anticipation. Excited for a new school year to begin, raking up great big piles of leaves and running through them for hours on end. Counting down the days to Halloween and playing pick-up games of football in the park. […]

The Ring Matters

Posted: 29th July 2012 by Jason Coleman in Love is a Choice
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Last week I commented to a coworker that his lunch smelled good and I asked him what he was warming up in the microwave. He broke into a mile-wide grin and said, “Would you believe my wife has made me lunch everyday?” Knowing he was a newly-wed, I laughed and congratulated him, and told him […]

Our Story

Posted: 29th July 2012 by Jason Coleman in Love is a Choice
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Meet Jason & Debby Coleman. They were married September 30, 1989 at a very young age (Debby turned 19 on their honeymoon – Jason was 21). They dated for several years and had what they like to describe as a “fairy-tale wedding” and expected to “live happily-ever-after.” However, reality struck immediately. Jason spent an inordinate […]